Evolve with your dreams… Evolve with your
goals… Evolve with your life…
The evolution of our being and surroundings
brings changes to our priorities. It inevitably brings a different focus into
our lives and can even alter our dreams. Unfortunately, we sometimes allow the
challenges of life to take over and we forget about our dreams and desires.
Yesterday Me
From focusing on me, me, me and more me
To finding love – I went from purposely being
in doomed relationships, to being head-over-heels in love and wanting to do any
and every thing for “the love”
And then on to creating a space for our
history
To keep enjoying, romancing, and spontaneously
maintaining “the love”
Marriage
To redefining, romancing, and conventionally
maintaining “the love”
Children
Transforming our space into a home
To trying to find time to enjoy, define,
romance and maintain “the love”, that I am fighting to not take for granted, as
best as you can in the mist of new responsibilities…”
Did I resolve within myself that I’d live a
boring, uneventful and even monotonous life?
No!
I have evolved, I have changed, and I have
grown alongside my dreams and wishes. While in the past I only wished to see
results for my own selfish needs, my current goals, wishes and dreams are
mostly selfless and are spread to my love ones.
Did I settle?
No!
“Remember, what you have now was once among the things
you had only hoped for”
So I cherish everything I have, as wisdom
and prudence are what’s driving me, instead of fully relying on feelings (and
temporary emotions).
Today me
Motherhood has brought a different
dimension to my life. Fear and boredom are not what made me more cautious and
pacified in my reaction towards life; it’s bringing new life into this world. It’s
wishing for world peace so your children will forever be safe. It’s wishing for
an end to world hunger so that they will never find themselves starving and in
need. It’s wishing for a flourishing world economy so that they can always be
independent and in pursuit of their own dreams. Fear is not what’s guiding me
or changing my perspective (or reaction) to things; its having learned the
power of one’s soul, and what desire can accomplish. I’m learning to not waste
it away with the frivolous but with meaningful!
Look at yourself! Remember the old you and look
at who you are today. Can you see how much you’ve evolved? Can you see how
insignificant your then challenges and aspirations were? Ask yourself, what do
you value most in life? What are your goals today? If you were the winner of
that $640M lottery jackpot, what would you have done? If you only had 5 months
left on this earth, what would you make sure you did? What is the 1 wish you
would want to be granted and why?
When you’re finished answering these
questions, can you see that your current state of mind is different than the
old? Can you see that your new thinking reflects the evolved, wiser, focused
being you’ve become?
Desires, visions and reveries don't come to
by the snap of your fingers. It takes work, ambition and commitment… lasting
commitment. From the frivolous dreams to the more thoughtful ones (that require
hard work and sometimes, a lifetime of struggle), you need to appreciate any
blessing. You should specifically appreciate the ones that are the realizations
of your dreams, especially when at times, people around you or life makes you
believe that your dreams are crazy and you are foolish for dreaming them.
Don’t ever be ashamed of your dreams, as
they may not be big, exciting, or thrilling. Your self-evolution will allow you
to keep your dreams and wishes meaningful, relative to where you are in life. Remember
to keep dreaming, for without your dreams, you will have definitely started
your downward spiral into a boring life, void of all real purpose.
"We grow great by dreams.
All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or
in the red fire of a long winter's evening. Some of us let these great dreams
die, but others nourish and protect them; nurse them through bad days till they
bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely
hope that their dreams will come true. ~Woodrow
Wilson
Dreaming bigger and wiser... Evolve
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